Current Status (Quo)

I can't believe it's been 2 months since I wrote a blog post! Do you know what that means?! We've been experiencing some kind of NORMAL! That is to say...we've been living the busy life with our kids, and Verity has been growing and developing and thriving in the midst of it all.

So with a bit of time and a quiet house, I decided an update was way past due, especially since we do have some things to report that we haven't detailed on Verity's Voice (our Facebook page).

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First of all, I am pleased to report that Verity's feeding regimen continues to improve as we work toward a more "normal" feeding routine. We are up to 3 bolus feedings now, with only 14 hours of slow continuous feeding, running 4pm to 7am. This means Verity has quite a bit more TUBE-FREE time during which she can practice her moving and grooving! It is SO nice to be able to hold her, carry her, and help her with her physical skills when she doesn't have her "leash" on! While she still isn't eating by mouth, we are doing more and more tasting and doing so while she is having her bolus feeds so that she can begin associating food with a full (or filling) tummy.

So her feeding schedule looks like this:

• 0700: Turn off the feeding pump (ending the continuous feeding)
• 0800: Begin bolus #1: 75ml over a 30-minute period (rate of 150ml/hr)
• 1100: Begin bolus #2: 75ml over a 30-minute period (rate of 150ml/hr)
• 1400: Begin bolus #3: 75ml currently at a rate of 85ml/hr, with rate increases of 5ml/hr every 3 days.
• 1600: Begin continuous feeding: 34ml/hr for the next 14 hours.

Typically during the first 2 bolus feeds, Verity will sit upright at the table in her chair. She has had tastes of applesauce and sweet potatoes by spoon (or on her pacifier), and we also frequently give her a food "stick" to hold and explore with her mouth. She has tried carrot and celery sticks, cucumbers, and apple slices so far. One of her day nurses wants to try a big pretzel rod! Verity's interest level varies from day to day, but I'm in no hurry. She's GROWING!

And speaking of which, I don't have exact measurements--we should get some this week since we have a couple of appointments--but last time we weighed her she was about 16lbs, 12oz, although that was with clothes on. STILL...she had dropped under 16 pounds awhile back when she was fighting off a sickness, so this is encouraging!!

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Last week we had a 6-month check-up with the orthopedic doctor. The good news: Verity's hip X-ray shows all is continuing to look good. The doctor says she should have yearly X-rays as long as she is growing.

The bad news: Verity's Achilles tendons have tightened considerably, and the tendons in her groin are likewise still very, very tight despite the stretching exercises we do faithfully and frequently. So, a November 19 surgery date is scheduled for a tenotomy to release those tendons. After the brief procedure (which will require sedation), Verity will get full-leg casts with a brace between her legs. She will need to wear those for 3-4 weeks, and then we will resume the boots and bar (which we have discontinued at this time).

So...if you think of us during Thanksgiving week, please pray that Verity's surgery goes uneventfully and that she has minimal pain and recovers quickly. We are already dreading the lack of sleep that will undoubtedly accompany this process!

Below you can see her left foot, which is "rocker bottomed," a common feature in Trisomy 18 kiddos. Until our appointment last week, I had not heard a doctor describe her foot in this way. I assumed it looked different from the other foot simply because they were both severely clubbed and had to go through the casting process (a year and a half ago!). You can also see the back of the heel, which will not flex any more than this even if we are trying to help her do so. The right heel is much more affected than the left...we have not been able to get that foot flat onto her boots for some time now, so I was not terribly surprised when I heard the doctor's recommendations.

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In other very quick news:

• Verity's sleep patterns have improved DRASTICALLY! She usually will take a 2 or even 3-hour nap (although sometimes only 45 minutes or an hour) in the afternoon. If she gets a good nap, she typically does have a pretty decent night of sleep. She is even sleeping all the way through the night on occasion!
• I have successfully completed CNA training and passed the Colorado state exam! This involved 4 weeks of night classes and clinical experience, followed by a full day of written and skills testing. I am officially a certified nurse aid! What does this mean? Well...
• In the state of Colorado, family members are allowed to receive payment to care for their disabled loved one. There is an assessment tool that tells how many hours per day one can qualify for, and when a caregiver is certified (or licensed or registered, depending on what level of care), he or she can be hired through a home health agency. I work through the same agency that provides our skilled nursing care, and I'm quite pleased with the training and preparation I received through this whole process. I chart for 4 hours a day, and it amazes me that we are blessed to receive financial help for the tasks I was already doing with Verity. What a GIFT! The Lord knew we needed to be in this state for multiple reasons, and this is just one way He has tenderly shown His provision for us. Jehovah-Jireh, indeed. 
• I will detail later the results of the sleep study we had at the end of September, as I still need to meet with the ENT and later on the sleep clinic doctor.
• Tomorrow we have a liver scan and kidney ultrasound--we do this every 3 months, although this will be Verity's first liver scan. Our T18 kiddos have a higher chance of cancer/tumors, so it's proactive vigilance.